Zuzu needed intensive home care at the end of his life, including pain medicine and attention to issues of mobility, comfort, grooming, hygiene, incontinence, nutrition and hydration

ZUZU, who owned Kathy

AMPERSAND, who owned Kathy

BIG ORANGE, ZUZU, DUKE, PUMPKIN, and BUFFY, who owned Kathy

FREUD and BUD BUD, who owned Kathy

MR. BLUE, who owned Kathy

Is felt like Trinket was suddenly sick with I don't know what.

TRINKET, who owned Kathy

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Once I became a pet “owner,” I realized that I don’t own them; they own me.

In addition to my own pets, I’ve fostered more than 700 unweaned kittens through the early days of parasites and upper respiratory infections to the ripe old age of 7 weeks, when they are ready for adoption through my local humane society into what I hope are their forever homes.

The vast majority made it, but not all. And not all their passings were gentle. Experience taught me to listen to them, believing they would tell me when the struggle to survive was too difficult.  And they usually did. 

Experience also taught me that I have a unique perspective on a pet’s suffering. I’ve nursed wee kittens and my own pets through illnesses. I’ve struggled with the decision about whether or when to end their suffering through euthanasia.  And I’ve shed abundant tears as their frail heartbeats stilled.  I know the agony. I’ve been there. And I know the way out.                                                                     Kathryn W. Copley, PhD, counseling psychology

 

All the named animals pictured in this blog were someone’s treasured pet. They may have crossed the Rainbow Bridge, but their absence makes them no less beloved.